When it comes to how to ride in a car seat, many friends think that if it’s just getting into a car, how can there be so many rules?

On certain occasions, such as taking the leader's car, driving your own car to see off friends, or receiving important guests, if the seating arrangement is incorrect, the atmosphere will instantly become awkward.

People who often drive often say, "If the seat is not right, then even your efforts will be in vain." Although this statement may seem a bit exaggerated, it really reflects the actual situation: car seats have different riding styles, which can reveal many conditions in some aspects.

And so on, there are differences in closeness, distance, status, and even some indescribable and inexplicable emotional entanglements and unique inner expressions between several people.

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Today let’s talk about those doorways hidden in car doors.

The owner is driving the car himself, so the front seat cannot be left empty.

When many novice drivers who have just obtained their driver's license drive to see someone off, they will always politely say "you have a spacious seat in the back". In fact, this is a big misunderstanding.

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When we hold the steering wheel and act as the driver, the upper seat of the car is actually Passenger seat .

At this time, the front row is generally considered to be superior and the back row is considered to be bottom; the right is regarded as the most respected and the left as the humble.

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Receiving guests or friends to sit in the co-pilot's seat means treating the other person as "one of our own", and there is a sense of traveling on the same boat and sharing happiness.

On the contrary, if the car owner is driving the vehicle alone in the front and there are two passengers sitting in the back, then no matter which angle you look at it, the scene will look like the driver is driving for the boss, and the original friendship between friends will instantly become more serious.

Especially when sending a close friend home, it is best for a man to take the initiative to sit in the passenger seat. Don't let the two of you squeeze in the back seat and talk quietly, leaving the friend who is driving alone. The feeling of being excluded is really not pleasant.

When a professional driver drives, the right seat in the back seat is the "boss seat"

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If you have a full-time driver, the seating rules are completely reversed.

At this time, the principle followed is that the right is superior and the left is inferior. However, the seating arrangement has changed at the same time, with the back row being the top and the front row being the bottom.

In slightly more formal business occasions, when riding in a car, you should ask your elders to sit in the upper seat, ladies to sit in the upper seat, and guests to sit in the upper seat. This is a courtesy given to the other party.

Take a common five-seater car as an example. The order of positions is generally like this. The seat on the right side of the back row is seat 1, which is the most noble. The second most honorable seat is the seat on the left side of the back row, which is seat 2. The third seat behind is the seat in the middle of the rear row, which is seat 3. The seat at the end is the co-pilot's seat, which is seat 4.

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There is such an interesting safety knowledge point: although the middle part of the rear seat is the safest, it has the smallest space. The seat cushion may have protrusions and even have armrests, which is extremely uncomfortable; the front passenger position has a better view, but it is the most dangerous; the left side of the rear seat is close to the lane. When getting in or out of the car, you need to pay attention to the vehicles coming from behind.

Therefore, when receiving important leaders, the leader often sits on the right side of the back row, while an assistant or secretary usually sits above the co-pilot. The purpose is to help the leader open and close the car door and handle some trivial matters.

You and the car owner are close friends, so just take the initiative to grab the passenger seat.

In daily life, there is a relatively common situation. After a group of friends get together, everyone drinks a little, and once again emphasizes that drinking is not allowed to drive, so a driver is called, or a friend who does not drink drives to see everyone off.

At this moment, if you and the car owner are very close friends, then never get into the back row, but take the initiative to sit in the passenger seat.

This action conveys the message to the car owner: "We are very close, and I am willing to accompany you to relieve your boredom in chatting and share your fatigue while driving." On the contrary, if they are ordinary friends with whom we have a normal relationship, sitting in the passenger seat will make the car owner feel uncomfortable. At this time, depending on the number of people, politely asking "Where should I sit?" can actually show more respect.

And I would like to remind you that if the car owner has a companion who is still in the vehicle, then the co-pilot position will naturally be reserved for the other half. Everyone has this kind of due vision, so there is no need to say anything more.

When receiving leaders in the car, the secretaries and subordinates should be seated carefully.

When receiving superiors in the workplace, car seats directly reflect professional qualities.

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A standard approach has been clearly shown, that is, the boss will sit firmly in the right seat of the back row, and this position, to be precise, is the leadership seat that we often mention in daily life. This position has the characteristics of convenient getting on and off the car, and its safety is relatively higher compared to other positions.

The co-pilot seat usually holds an assistant, secretary or lower-ranking subordinate.

This subordinate has a key task, which is to get out of the car early and open and close the car door for the leader. At the same time, while the vehicle is driving, it has to take on the responsibility of answering phone calls and dealing with matters that suddenly occur.

If the leader takes the initiative to greet you and says, "Sit over here (co-pilot) and chat," it means that the leader has that kind of close emotion towards you. At this time, just sit over and sit down openly.

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If there is another situation, that is, the boss takes you out in a car, do not sit in the back seat by yourself at this time. You must sit in the passenger seat, otherwise the boss will think that you treat him as a driver, which is a taboo in workplace interpersonal relationships.

Many "hidden rules" about seating have been discussed, but in fact the core of it boils down to this sentence. The essence of car seat etiquette is respect and empathy.

Regardless of the person driving the car or the person riding in the car, if you put yourself in the other person's perspective and think about it, a lot of embarrassment can be avoided.

Let’s talk about the bottom line of our driving again, how to arrange seats after having a good meal and drinks, and the matter of strong relationships. Don’t drive when you drink, and don’t drink when you drive.

After getting on the bus, everyone fastens their seat belts. This is the greatest respect and responsibility for everyone.