The moment you open the cabinet door in the morning, you will really be stunned.
Everywhere I looked were clothes, but it seemed like I was playing a game of "find fault." This one was just worn yesterday, that one looked too "grand" as if I was going to participate in a negotiation, and there were a few more wrinkled pieces huddled in the corner, as if they were mocking my difficulty in choosing. In fact, there is no need for so many fancy theories. The so-called tact can be put simply in two words: freedom. It is your own freedom and the freedom of others.
Those "social death" moments often have nothing to do with money
On the first day, Xiao Wang went to the Internet company to report and specially bought a dark suit and tie. As a result, when he opened the office door, all he saw were people wearing T-shirts, jeans and slippers. Later, he described himself as like a "real estate agent who walked into the wrong set". Throughout the whole day, his butt never left the chair, for fear that once he stood up, he would attract other people's attention!
This is not wearing clothes, it is simply wearing a torture device.
When a friend stayed at a law firm, he once wore a pair of jeans with holes in the knees. Later, he was called into the office by a partner for an interview. The partner tactfully reminded us: "If the client sees this, he will think that we are not rigorous." You see, different companies have different ways of fastening the "coat" in the workplace. In "old-school" industries such as finance, law, and education, wearing a shirt and trousers is a safe choice; but in the Internet and design circles, if you dress too conventionally, you will appear to be "keep away from strangers." Therefore, you see, different companies have different fastening rules for the "coat" in the workplace. In "old-school" fields such as finance, law, and education, shirts and trousers are a safe choice; in the Internet and design circles, if you dress too rigidly, you will appear "keep away from strangers."
### The red at the wedding is really dazzling
I went to attend the wedding of an old classmate last month. The ceremony had just begun when a girl in a bright red dress suddenly flashed across the back row. The skirt trailed to the ground and was longer than the bride's wedding dress. The eyes of many guests in the audience seemed to be attracted by magnets, and they drifted towards her from time to time - not because they felt amazing, but because they felt embarrassed for her.
In an occasion like a wedding, there is always only one protagonist.
The bride has her own special color of white. Bright red would be too eye-catching, and pure black would be unlucky in the eyes of some elders. Choose a soft light pink or champagne knee-length skirt, sit quietly in the audience and applaud, this way you will have more presence than under any circumstances. Sometimes in this world, you need to "hide" a little edge.
Ragged pants that grandma can’t understand
During the Chinese New Year, my cousin wore the so-called "fashionable" ripped jeans and went to her grandmother's house. The old lady took her hand and said with red eyes: "Girl, don't you have money to buy new pants? Grandma will give you money.".
A joke actually hides the gap between two generations.
In the eyes of our elders, the trends we pursue may mean "unsteady". When going to see relatives or return to your hometown, your clothes should not pill, your shoes should be wiped clean, and the style should be slightly simplified. My uncle once secretly told my cousin: "If you dress more decently, my mother will believe that you are living a good life outside and won't worry so much." It turns out that being decent is actually a silent "report of peace".
In fact, it’s really not that complicated. Three “lazy people’s formulas” are enough.
"Qunar" ranks first: when visiting customers, wearing a shirt and trousers shows respect; when shopping in the supermarket, wearing a T-shirt and jeans feels comfortable; when attending a funeral, wearing dark plain clothes shows solemnity. Consider the occasion first before opening the cabinet door.
2. Cleanliness is the bottom line : Once when I was having dinner, there was a boy at the next table wearing a brand-name shirt. However, the collar was yellowing and the cuffs were worn to white. No matter how expensive the brand is, it can't save that sloppy look. Before going out, check to see if there is dust on your shoes and whether there are wrinkles on your clothes. This is a hundred times more important than worrying about the brand. Throw away pilled sweaters and deformed T-shirts decisively. Don’t let old clothes drag you down.
3. Accessories belong to the category of "careful": they are not about pursuing jewelry. For boys, it means having a clean watch; for girls, it means wearing a simple silk scarf; or hanging an interesting keychain on a canvas bag. However, don't turn these "plus points" into "noise sources" - for example, the jingling metal bracelet of the girl next to you during a meeting will really distract everyone.
After all, dressing appropriately is not about pleasing anyone.
I saw a sentence that day, and my heart suddenly skipped a beat. That sentence was "How you treat life is just like how you dress."
When he goes out, he dresses neatly, walks as if the wind is blowing on his face, and his words can't help but add a bit of toughness. This is definitely not out of vanity, but actually to boost morale for oneself. Dressing professionally and appropriately when meeting with clients is intended to convey to the other party, "I have taken these matters to heart." Dressing appropriately when attending a wedding is a blessing to the couple, "I am really happy for you in my heart."
It is hidden in every tiny decision, choosing that clean shirt, wiping off the last trace of dust on the leather shoes, tying the scarf more comfortably.
Next time you stare at the wardrobe, don’t ask “does it look good?”
Can you ask: "Today, can dressing like this make me feel comfortable and comfortable, and at the same time, can it also make people walking towards me feel that the world is gentle and gentle?"
Being able to do this is enough.
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