After conducting a wide range of searches, I found that everyone is teaching you how to buy gifts, such as lighters, belts, razors, etc., and they are all the same list with no difference.
It makes you want to yawn.
But, in fact, you know in your heart that what the man lying next to you really lacks may not be these things at all.
The so-called "security" is actually a paper clip
Don't rush to buy those engraved things.
You give him a lighter and say something like "light the fire of love". Forget it, if he really smokes, you would have gotten angry with him earlier.
The strange thing is that the sense of security that a man longs for is not when you engrave words on his lighter, but when he works overtime until late one night, even though he is terribly sleepy, you still leave a light for him and put a cup of warm milk on the coffee table in the living room.
He folded the lamp into a small object that could be used as a paper clip in his heart, and pinned it to the softest heart that can easily touch emotions.
Watches, belts, wallets: the truth behind these "respectable" items
Did you give him a watch because you wanted to stay together all the time? In fact, that's an excuse for you to tolerate him being late for a date.
By giving him a leash, are you thinking of tying him up for the rest of his life? In fact, you noticed that he had been socializing quite frequently in recent days, and his belly was gradually bulging, and you were worried that his body could not bear it.
Giving him a wallet is not because you want to be with him forever, but because the last time he took out money, the wallet was so worn that the skin peeled off, which suddenly made you feel a little distressed.
You see, the reason why gifts are meaningful is because there are unspoken "cares" hidden behind them.
Don't buy a razor, seriously.
Take my advice.
Never give away a razor.
Even though everyone said it was practical, even though the foam looked quite warm in the early morning. However, have you ever thought about what the razor actually means?
It means that you have accepted the immature part of him that has to be shaved off every day, and accepted that he has become an individual called a "mature man" who has to take care of his stubble every day and is driven by life.
If possible, I would rather he never have to be so sharp throughout his life. He always looks like a young man, wearing that worn-out jersey, running on the court with sweat all over his head.
Give him a fitness card, not because you dislike him, but because you miss his high-spirited days.
Game skins and electronic products are not just about playing with things.
I know you bother him playing games.
Just by giving him a set of skins named "Lu Bu", he can brag in front of his brothers for a whole year and say, "Look, my wife gave this to me!".
This is more effective than giving away a keyboard worth 10,000 yuan.
What he is playing is not just a game, but a different world where he can take off all disguises in front of you and run wild like a child. You can't enter that world, but you can stand at the entrance, hand him a bottle of water, and gently touch his head.
Q version dolls and love commemorative coins, just let yourself go
Talking about the actual situation, the Q-shaped dolls would accumulate dust when placed at home. He looked at the shrunken, naive-looking image of himself, and actually felt a little embarrassed in his heart.
Then there are the so-called "high-end" local gold commemorative coins with names and love words engraved on them. The collection moment was very touching. What happened after the collection was completed? Hide it in the deepest part of the drawer. Moving ten years later, digging it out, finally getting a smile, and that’s it.
Romance is not copy and paste.
Romance is when, on a rainy, bad day, you pull him into the bedroom and hang small strings of warm yellow lights all over the bedside. On the wall are your messy photos, with fantastic light and shadow.
He said, "Why are you so fancy?" but his eyes lit up.
The most important thing is that meal and that letter
On Chinese Valentine's Day, whether you go out for a big meal or cook a few specialty dishes at home.
The important thing is that after eating and washing the dishes, you guys sit on the sofa.
You threw your phone aside.
Grab a crumpled piece of paper, open an old book, or even just write on a post-it note.
Write something to him. There is no need for long speeches or brilliant writing.
Just write: "That day you repaired my desk lamp slowly. I thought you were more handsome than Einstein.", or "Today you snored, but I didn't kick you.".
Handwritten words are warm, with the strength of your hand holding the pen and the panic of occasionally writing a wrong word.
at last
Ring, that's Final Fantasy.
But before that, in those ordinary days of washing dishes, cooking and taking care of loved ones.
The best gift is when you look at him and suddenly say:
"Hey, I found that I still like you very much."
That's it. Better than Hermès or LV.
When you give something away, it is never a gift. It's that state where she becomes gentle and a little clumsy when she's around him.
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