I got up at half past five and thought about this for a long time.
It's not the kind of thinking that makes people say "Wow, they are great", but the kind that makes people feel chills on their backs and can't help but think: What on earth am I doing?
Have you ever hated the feeling of being pushed around?
I hated it.
When I saw the schedule of Hengshui Middle School earlier, my first thought was "sick". The vacation seems to have not ended yet. What else is there left in life besides solving problems? Then I saw the three pictures on the Internet. Those with weak foundations, those with middle level, and those with top grades had clear summer arrangements. I feel more and more depressed, why should I do this?
The annoyance continued, and half of the summer vacation was over. At this time, I found myself lying on the sofa, and my phone fell down and hit my face.
pain.
At that moment, I suddenly thought, what are those people who I called "sick" doing now?
Qian Weichang is like this too, I am balanced
Really, I'm not making this up.
The interview titled "Everyone" conducted in 2004 mentioned Qian Weichang. He was from Tsinghua University. His physics scores were low at first, but he chose to study physics and got up at five o'clock every day to study mathematics, physics and chemistry that were like heavenly books to him.
The host asked him: Is there anyone more ruthless than you?
He said yes, Hua Luogeng. I went to recite at five o'clock, but they had already finished memorizing.
At that time, I was stunned. It turned out that the top academics were not competing with each other to see who was smarter, but to see who got up earlier than ghosts and slept later than dogs. Moreover, these people were actually immersed in it and enjoyed themselves.
Is there any bug in this world?
About that "cruel" mother
On the Internet, a mother posted her daughter's summer schedule, which lasted from 7 a.m. to 9 p.m. During this period, she had to draw and practice calligraphy, then study for the Mathematical Olympiad, and then go swimming. There were also activities called "playing" interspersed among these activities.
There was a quarrel in the comments section.
Did anyone say that this child still has childhood? Some people say this is counterproductive.
I stared at the form for a long time. The truth is that my mother left out a blank for seven whole days, which was a family car trip. She just doesn't want her child to be missing out. The fear that the child will be abandoned is more urgent than the child himself.
But what I care more about is, will that girl be willing?
self-discipline? Stop talking
We all love to talk about self-discipline.
It seems that self-discipline means gritting your teeth and telling yourself "I have to work hard", and then you can get up at five o'clock.
No.
The vacation schedule of Zhang Joy, the girl from Hengshui Middle School who was admitted to Peking University, can be seen everywhere on the Internet, but if you look carefully, you will find that she is not simply studying, but making detailed "arrangements" for her life. For example, what time do you go to eat, what time do you go to bed, what time do you solve wrong questions, and what time do you do comprehensive analysis.
She spent her day in a grid. Put one thing in each box and cross it out when done.
This is not self-discipline, this is a sense of control.
When you know exactly what you are going to do next and actually take action, the feeling is actually quite satisfying. This is much more enjoyable than watching short videos for two hours and then feeling so empty that you feel like nauseating.
But what if I am the one with a weak foundation?
It is said on the Internet that those with poor foundation should sort out their wrong questions, and those with good grades should preview new lessons.
It sounds so cruel. The poor students are still patching the holes, while the top students have already moved forward.
But thinking about it from another perspective, as long as the person responsible for patching the holes can fill the holes during the two-month summer vacation, it is considered a victory. Every time you successfully fill a hole, your confidence will increase. I have seen a large number of people fail not in competition with others, but in the face of the "forget it, let's do it" idea in their own hearts.
Even if you only study for two hours a day, it's still better than doing nothing at all.
This sentence is corny, but it can really save lives.
The second half of the Harvard motto
We all know the saying: learning is not everything in life.
But the second half of the sentence is, but since you can't conquer even one part of life, that is, learning, what else can you do?
This was so harsh that I didn’t want to admit that it was right.
As the summer vacation is coming to an end, I see in the circle of friends that some people are posting brand-new books, some are posting travel experiences, and some are posting admission notices. At this time, you realize that the face of the person who has been studying hard for the whole holiday is shining. This is not the kind of brilliance that is used to show off, but the kind of brilliance that comes from knowing the direction you are heading.
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The last thing I want to say
In fact, I don’t want to advise you to be self-disciplined.
Because even the self-discipline that was persuaded could not last three days.
I just want to say that if you are willing to give it a try sometimes, try the feeling of "time is tightly held in my hands", even if it is just to get up early every morning to read a book for ten minutes, write a two-page copybook, and persist for a summer vacation.
Try it and see if it makes a difference.
After all, life is not a semester system, and there is no summer vacation for you to start over. However, summer vacation can indeed allow you to secretly switch to another lifestyle.
Even if it's just a little change.
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