You tossed and turned at night, unable to fall asleep. Others around you were breathing evenly, but you were staring at the ceiling, with that incident in your mind.
It's not that I don't want to, it's that my body suddenly became disobedient.
This kind of panic, like a tide, can destroy a man's self-confidence in an instant.
Don't rush to label yourself as "impotent".
Really, take a breath first.
The folk remedies you searched for and the "veteran Chinese medicine doctors" you added on WeChat may all be too urgent.
The medical field has long stated that the root cause of most cases of erection difficulties does not exist in the relevant parts below the body, but in the brain above the body.
Are you sure it's a disease?
On the newlywed night, I was almost nervous. I had been exhausted for a whole week, and all I wanted to do was fall asleep. After that, I had another argument with my wife, back to back in anger. At a time like this, it would be weird to be able to "stand up".
It is really a great injustice to treat the first few failures after marriage as if the sky is falling, or to conclude that you are not capable because you cannot bring the woman to climax immediately.
This is like asking a person who just got his driver's license to run the Nürburgring. Turning off the engine is the norm.
It doesn't work once in a while, that's normal.
This is your body’s way of telling you: you’re tired, annoyed, or stressed out.
This is not a malfunction, it is the system's self-protection.
Don’t treat masturbation as your enemy
Also don’t believe in the old almanac that says “one drop of sperm equals ten drops of blood”.
Moderate masturbation, once or twice a week, is not only harmless, but also helps the body to unblock itself.
In fact, it is not the specific act of masturbation that brings you into a situation of poor performance, but the strong feeling of guilt that seems to spread everywhere after completing the act, as well as the inner feeling of disgust towards your own body.
This psychological "tightening curse" is the culprit that strangles erectile function.
Many people regard morning erection as a hard indicator.
It seems like the end of the world is coming if there is no response this morning.
In fact, morning erections will be greatly affected by sleep and mood. If you had a nightmare last night, or if you woke up too early today, it may take time off.
This diagnosis alone is unscientific.
Is the ointment a savior or a placebo?
Let’s talk about those popular ointment recipes.
What about the kidney-warming and essence-strengthening ointment, Erziqiyang ointment... they seem quite mysterious.
It must be admitted that Chinese medicine has its own reasons for regulating this matter.
Especially for functional impotence, which is the kind of physical imbalance caused by anxiety and fatigue, the "tonifying" and "regulating" functions of the ointment can indeed play a certain role.
It's more like fertilizing a barren piece of land, giving the seeds a chance to germinate on their own.
However, if your blood vessels are blocked or you have diabetic neuropathy, then this is an organic problem.
At this time, just sticking a plaster on the belly button or taking some ointment with kidney-tonifying effect will have a very limited effect.
Don't let the ointment become a myth. It regulates "function" and cannot change "organism".
Those scary “notes”
The rules and regulations listed on the Internet seem to be correct, such as quitting smoking and drinking, maintaining a regular life, achieving harmonious coexistence between husband and wife, etc. These are indeed correct, but they are correct to the extent that they are like nonsense.
I think there are two things that should be paid attention to the most:
Don't fight with your body.
If it doesn’t work this time, just take a break.
Hug each other, chat, or even just fall asleep.
The sky cannot fall.
The more you stare at "it", the more it will work against you.
Go to the hospital, go to a regular hospital.
Instead of going to a small clinic with banners on the wall, he went to the urology department or men's department of a tertiary hospital.
Spending hundreds of dollars for a physical examination to rule out organic diseases and buy peace of mind is more valuable and worth it than taking supplements worth thousands of dollars.
write at the end
The lower body of a man is connected to the heart of the upper body.
Many times, the rise and fall of that place is just a projection of our living conditions.
Rest when you are tired, treat yourself when you are sick, and don’t treat it as a battle that must be won.
Perhaps, when you no longer stare at it so closely and no longer use various folk remedies to "awaken" it, it will instead give you a long-lost greeting on a relaxing and comfortable morning.
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